A bad friend — or lousy roomie — can really make you sick
A bad friend — or lousy roomie — can really make you sick
By Melissa DahlGossip, rumors, cat fights, mean girls: We know bad friendships can hurt feelings — but new evidence is emerging that suggests frenemies can hurt your health, too.
A new University of California, Los Angeles, study links negative social interaction to increased inflammation. Inflammation isn’t necessarily a bad thing — it’s an immune system response that fights infections and helps heal physical injuries. But chronic inflammation is tied to an increased risk in developing all kinds of health issues: hypertension, atherosclerosis, coronary heart disease, depression, diabetes and even cancer.
“There’s a lot of research showing that when we are stressed out, it activates all these biological systems” including inflammation, says Jessica Chiang, a UCLA graduate student and lead author of the new report. “And interpersonal stressors are often the biggest stressors people experience in their daily lives.”
The study was published online today in the journal Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences of the United States of America.

No surprise here. Any bad situation can get under your skin – figuratively and literally ………… eating away and stressing you out. It can be a friend, a roommate, a lover, a spouse, a co-worker ……………. whomever. The day to day drama can cause real harm and damage. Toxic Psychological environments do harm, they are a kind of war zone eating at you day and night. Serious problems can result from continued exposure.
Some situations are not easy to change and they take time and planning. The best thing you can do in the long term and the short term is to improve your stress coping skills and take specific time to relax and let go of the stress.
DANGER – We have a tendency to do bad things to ourselves in the guise of comfort – over-eating, over-sleeping, too much TV, lost in video games, constant online chat of Facebooking.
You will be much healthier to do thing to boost your strength – eat healthy foods, exercise daily, get good sleep… etc.
Good basic stress management training is very inexpensive and takes only 30 minutes 3 times a week.
The training is quite easy to do on your own. We have a series of excellent scientific relaxation exercises that are easy to follow and learn. The training guide provides important tips and information. The Stress Thermometer gives precise feedback about changes in the body and an excellent measurement of current stress.
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Practice with one audio CD each day. Pay attention to how you feel before and after. Make notes in a relaxation journal. In just a month, you will see major improvement in how quickly you see subtle changes in how you feel. Typically men do not pay attention to how they feel inside. We are trained to be numb and to push forward = No Pain, No Gain. You are in kindergarten so it will take a few sessions as you learn to access you body’s neural net and recognize tiny shifts and changes.
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Learn to warm up your hands and feet before bed. You can learn this easily and quickly.
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You can put the temperature sensor on the sore area of your back and use your mind to increase blood flow and relax the area of tension.
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